Can I have sex if I am a single Christian?

What do you think God thinks about sex outside of marriage? Remember your body is a temple. From a very practical point of view, sex with multiple partners is very dangerous. That is why God chose to give us laws regarding sex.  "Do you know that you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you. If any man destroys the temple of God, God will destroy him, for the temple of God is holy and that is what you are." I Cor. 3:16.

You body, the temple should be kept clean so that the holy spirit can dwell within. Multiple sex partners can defile your body and make you week. This is why God gave us marriage. So that we can be united with one partner in a safe, holy unity. 

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While we would like to think that everyone that would frequent a Christian site would be honest and trustworthy, we know that there are those out there who are dishonest. We do not want to scare you away of course, but we believe that everyone should be prudent.

First, be aware of the most common scam with internet dating. After they establish some quick correspondence with you, they fall in love — nearly over night. If they say they do not live in the USA, they ask for money for a visa to fly to see you or they ask for money for a plane ticket. Or they ask for money for their sick relatives, or some other tragic event. Sometimes they say they made a business trip to Nigeria, or another similar country and need some cash to get home. Or they will tell you that their employer pays them with Money Orders and they can’t cash them in Nigeria. They will send you the Money Orders and ask you to deposit them into your bank account and then wire the money to them via Western Union. Usually they say to keep some money for your trouble. Needless to say, those Money Orders are no good, and not even worth the paper they’re printed on. There are numerous stories… but they all have the same theme: They need you to send them some money. Never, ever send money. Ever.

There are several ways to spot these scammers. Here are some things to look for…

• They are over eager to get your email address.
• They often use language such as ""Hello Dearest," and "Dear Lovely,"
• Some common occupations listed are Engineer, Importer, Financial, Doctor, Self Employed, Attorney, Oil Merchant (whatever that is), Contractor. Often the occupation has some kind of international capacity which requires them to travel the world (and get stuck in Nigeria).
• They might claim to be a doctor or engineer, yet there will be misspelled words scattered about.
• They use words like "mum" for "mom." This is normal in the U.K. and other places, but if they are claiming to be in the USA then it is a red flag.
• They often say their parent(s) died and they are an orphan. Or their wife or husband died and they are raising their children alone.
• The profile seems well written, but the mail messages have poor grammar, misspellings and often don’t match the profile. Sometimes the messages read like they have been put through a translation program. "I like your structure." is translated from Russian meaning, "Your look handsome (or pretty)."
• The profile says they are in the USA - but the first note you get says they are on "business" in Nigeria or the UK.
• They seem to fall in love with you overnight after just a couple of emails.
• We have not been able to spot the reason for this, but they often use a first name and last name for a username. Some examples: DIANE_BRIAN, SUSANDOVAN, HENRYREED, JOHNDAVID, ERICK_FREEMAN. Please note that many members do this and are not scammers. We are simply pointing out one more common theme.
• And, of course… the biggest red flag is when they ask for money.

So, how do you stay safe? Here are some suggestions.

• First: Use our mail system. Nobody can know anything about you other than what you tell them. Use our mail system until you are 100% comfortable with the other party.
• Do not give out your email address or home phone number to anyone until you, again, are 100% comfortable.
• Ask us! We have ways to check where someone is logging in from. If in doubt - ask. 
• Look for descrepencies. Do they claim to be a doctor but have trouble spelling? Do they change their story between messages?
• Never, ever, ever… send money to anyone. Did we say "never, ever" yet? Once more… Never, ever, ever send anyone any money. OK?
• Get comfortable. Take your time. A real relationship takes time. Don’t be in a hurry. Be patient. If that person is the special one they will be here tomorrow.
• Did we mention the money thing yet? Don’t send money. Ever.

Christian Single? Are You Looking for Some New Friends?

With a Christian singles group you can enjoy the time you have with other Christian men and Christian women like yourself. So many opportunities that give you the chance to make some new friends. Free Christian chat is always a bonus when you are looking for someone with similar interests.

Spending time in a Christian singles network allows you to meet and make new friends through conversation with other. You may have the chance to meet with some of the people that you meet in the Christian singles network. It really allows you to really get to know them.

Christian Women Seeking Men
In a Christian singles network, there are plenty of opportunities for you to meet up with other singles that have the same interests as you. This can build into a long lasting relationship. You may not even become serious, but you can gain a friend.

In this day and age, it is nice to know that people care about you and want to get to know the real you. It can be difficult when you’re meeting new people to be yourself due to nerves. When you are meeting people online, a lot of the initial awkwardness is relieved so you can really be yourself.

Christian Men Seeking Women
For the women out there this is an opportunity for you to meet and get to know a Christian man before you actually go on the first date. You can see what he likes, and what he does not. Online Christian dating is a great way to screen your dates so you don’t waste your time with the wrong guy.

Online Christian dating makes it easy to meet the right type of people. You can search for singles according to specific interests. You can really get specific in the type of single you want.

An All Around Good Time
When you take advantage of a Christian singles network, you can enjoy the company of other Christians. You can really get to know a group of quality people and form lasting relationships. You’ll be amazed at the variety of people you can find online.

People are always available to give you tips on life and all the questions you could have. My friends and I have taken full advantage of this on numerous occasions. It is the best thing to see all the help that is always there. It is really nice to know all these people care about me too. Here at the Christian Singles Network, we hope you get started today meeting quality Christians online.

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